08 February 2011

Is it the Age Gap?

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I have had the fortune to meet and become friends with several great people within WoW. These friendships will normally evolve after I've grouped or guilded with someone, and throughout the course of killing pixelated bosses we've communicated beyond the base "you trap square while I sheep the moon.. ok tank we're good" kind of communications. We actually start sharing some personal details from our lives. One of the fun ones is age. I've come to realize that -- in WoW -- I'm an actual Elder.

While I'm older than most of the players I've met, I don't consider myself old. I'm getting closer and closer to 40, which makes me approximately twice if not even three times as old as many of the players I've interacted with. While there is certainly no scientific statistical analysis behind this next opinion, I'd say that those players older than 33 make up less than a quarter of the players I've met. I may be wrong here -- it's just been my experiences.

See -- I don't consider myself "old". In my life, when people address me as "Mr.", I still immediately assume they are referring to my father. Sure, I'm married (for 13 years now!), I'm a father to 4 children, and I work full time.  But... I still make time to play a video game. Gamers can't be "old", can we?

So what sparked this?

Well... we had a great run as a guild 5m for the random heroic, and we pulled Deadmines. Now I've only done that one once before, and I did not have a great experience. The whole Nightmare is just not fun for me, and honestly I struggle with it. I handled the falling icicles in the Pit of Saron just fine. I handled the frogger slimes in Naxxramas without incident. I handled the Icehowl charge in ToC without causing an enrage, and I dispelled that enrage when others weren't so nimble.

See, I can move out of the way and avoid the poop in most cases. But I can't seem to avoid the fires or dodge the electrified limbo sticks in heroic Deadmines!  The only way I've been able to navigate in there is by stacking on top of another player as they run through and not looking at anything else but them so that I step where they step.  If they fail, I'm dead too. But I can't seem to do it without a visual reference.

How does this tie back into the age thing?

Two of us in the group struggled with dodging the poop in our run.  We were the older players. The three twenty-somethings had no issues. To prove how easy it was, two of them ran up and back and up and back to show how it worked, which was a bit of a tongue-in-cheek way of saying "Come ON Gramps!"  It was friendly, but honestly there was a difference in our performance -- but ONLY with the dodging and only in the fire pools and lightning limbo.

I have to wonder: Have I finally hit something where I'm 'weaker' than a younger player? Is it my reaction time that's slower? My eyesight (please hold the cataract comments!)? Hand-eye coordination? Or, as I want to think -- just too much crap going on in a confined space? 

Don't hold back on your comments -- please give me both barrels if it's as simple as "Just friggin' dodge it, dude".  Obviously, I'm a big boy. I can take constructive criticism!

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Buck up! I don't think it's an age thing, as I am a happy 34yrs old and able to dodge the electrified "poop" sticks pretty easily.

That part always reminds me of Super Mario Brothers during the dungeon levels with the fire sticks. I spent countless hours playing that game growing up, so this didn't seem much different.

Did you play that game, by chance? It may just be you didn't play the same practice games...
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I wouldn't blame it on age either. I'm 26 and I can't do the limbo sticks for the life of me.

I've played with a lot of players of all ages and it does seem like players over 40 *generally* struggle more with situational awareness and reaction time. That said, I've known an excellent, versatile 42 year player and I've met plenty of slow young players.
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1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
Hi :), What an interesting post from someone who I would consider a much younger player than me (56 and female by the way). I haven't been to heroic DM yet. I do think I have slower reaction times than some of the younger players though and I think that does come into it. I was absolutely useless at the Mario games or indeed any platform games when my daughter played them when she was growing up.
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I'm 48 and I have an average gearscore of 356. I have done every heroic and most HC achievements. I have only 2 raid bosses left to kill. I'm one of the top 10 shaman on my server and am in a guild that is top 5 on the srver. Ae has absolutely nothing to do with your performance except in the respect that I dont spit my dummy out of things go wrong. I read recently that the average age of the MMO gamer was 33 and that makes sense to me. Especially in games like WoW where you need to have a long term view.
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Entrails_770 · 737 weeks ago

Ive been wondering this myself ever since i started hc in cata .Im 43 have a gs of 352 and been playing these games since the beta of uo.For the life of me i struggle on the corla beams and the blitz attack in gb.I have no idea why,the dm bit is fine dont have an issue with that but the other 2 i really cant do.Im wondering if maybe my refleexes are too slow or im just not concentrating enough as its driving me nuts lol.Tbf to my guild and im the oldest by at least 15 years they make sure i dont do corla but in a pug normally i leave as i know i just cant do it and its very frustraing .I really dont remeebr having these probs raiding in eq or even lotro so its wierd and is kinda sapping my enjoyment of the game :(
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Its an interesting thought, and its one I have often considered. As a slightly more mature player (52 and female, though in my head I am 22 and look like Angelina Jolie - I wish), are my reaction times slower than the younger players. However, my husband, who is a year older than me has very quick reaction times - so maybe its not so much the age but the dexterity of the fingers?
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I doubt that age is really the issue. Nothing in WoW requires real twitchy reactions. My guild has a number of people (myself included) in the 35-50 year old range and we don't find ourselves running into any unusual difficulties.

Could it be that the younger kids have better computers with faster framerates? Perhaps they have better keybinds than you so that they can watch the screen and move/attack more readily. Maybe that particular skill reminds them of some other games they played that you may not have.

In any case, I'm sure that with a little practice you'll figure it out.
1 reply · active 736 weeks ago
The thing about those lightning beams in Deadmines is they're not even really tests of reaction speed, like the examples you listed as previously having no issue with. They're sort of...predictive pattern spatial awareness? Haha, that sounds way more complex than what I mean. But I know I played many Nintendo games while growing up where I had to overcome that exact sort of obstacle, where I was subconsciously tracking multiple Bad Things at once while navigating through them. Sort of splitting attention to numerous hazards at once, I guess? Maybe if you didn't grow up developing this "skill" that could explain your difficulties.
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I think it's more your mindset than your age. If you see the twirly sticks of doom and half your brain immediately fills with "I'mgonnadie I'mgonnadie I'mgonnadie" -- well, you're going to die. I remember my first experience with that fight, at first I was terrified and overwhelmed; but then I realized "You know what? It's a stick that spins in a circle. I am a human being capable of much more complex thoughts than 'circle.' I can do this." And do it I did, on my first try without getting touched by anything. (For the record I'm 19, but again I don't think that's really the crux of the issue.)
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Good discussion... for myself (almost 42 and a computer nerd at heart) what I struggle with for the most part is when a mechanic is "new" first time encounters even if explained well seem to be my bane. I also find myself getting lulled into focusing on maintaining DPS rotation/priority and my situational awareness goes way down. I also find that putting on headphones to avoid distractions also is a big help. For myself I find that the older I get the easier it is to get tunnel vision.
I thought I'd chime in, as a member of a far younger section of the player base. I'm 18, and I've been playing WoW on/off since the European release.

At the moment, I'm in a guild that has just started working on Cataclysm raids. I fill my spot well enough, and I'd wager that I'm one of the faster players in most regards - I tend to call phase shifts etc. so that the less aware players can focus on doing their jobs instead.

But, for the life of me, I suck at dodging whirlwind effects. Whether it's Lady Naz'jar in Throne of the Tides, Altairus in The Vortex Pinnacle or any other enemy that makes use of moving, swirly cones of doom, I just. Can't. Dodge. The. Whirlwinds.

Obviously, I'm not representative of the player base in its entirety, young or old. But I do think there is a tendency for people to be bad at very, very specific categories of tasks in this game. It stands to reason, as each type of encounter mechanic demands a very specific response; whirlwind effects are different from reflective shields are different from void zones and so on and so forth. As such, the skills needed to master each one are likely to differ as well.

Why are people very bad at specific types of gameplay? I have no idea, but I don't think age is in any way a determining factor. Response times and cognitive processing speed tend to deteriorate with age, yes, but I don't see how bad reflexes could be crippling in dodging rotating lines of lightning, but not in, say, timing interrupts.
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It's not age! I'm coming to think there's just a certain type of player that enjoys those obstacle courses, and can more readily see the best way to do it by instinct. You can be awesome and still have difficulty with those, and vice-versa.

Case in point: This really made an impression on me for some reason. I pugged DM and had a shadow priest in my group who was, with no reservations, simply amazing. His DPS was absurdly high pre-4.0.6 buff, his situational awareness was faultless, and whenever he was asked to MC, he would do it perfectly (down to the experts-recommended Pyschic Horror when MC is at its end, then refresh). When the mage was thrown off the pier into the water by a cannon blast and started to swim for shore, the priest lifegripped him back to solid ground. It was just a lot of little things like this that I saw, showing he knew his class inside out and performed all facets of them well.

But. When we got to the electric wire things, he died. Over, and over, and over, until we rezzed him from the other side.

After that I didn't feel bad anymore if I ever messed up on the electric wires. You can fail on the wires but still be completely awesome. :)
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My first experience with the Electric Wires occured in a PuG last week. It was my first run. We got to Foe Reaper part with the electric wires, and the tank informed us (in so many words) in that that this part of the fight was a 'retard check', and that anyone who failed would 'prove to be a retard'.

Needless to say I died, I just couldn't seem to do it, and it was as if my character had suddenly developed leaden boots. The others in the group appeared to navigate it without incident. (I'm 44 BTW)

I got ressed, told that I was a retard (which seemed to be done jokingly), but then kicked three minutes later. The reason given was 'RETARD FAILS!!'.

I suppose that if I do the encounter a few more times I might get better; but the truth is.. I'm kind-of scared to run it now.
I was wondering if it was my age? Whether my reactions simply are not quick enough for this encounter?
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Hey Peashooter, as the general consensus goes I dont think it is your age that is the issue here but rather practice. And not necessarily that particular Deadmines run.

You mentioned earlier that you never played any of the classic platformers and herded towards Madden and the like. For all those who find this area of Deadmines a walk in the park I think you will find they have all played a lot of platforming or similiar style games.

Swirling fire has been in games since the first Super Mario on the NES and probably before. Granted that it was in 2D back then but the premise is simple and getting used to walking at the same speed of the fire whilst not touching it is all you need to do.

My advice for that section would be several things:

-Use your mouse to turn
-Adjust your camera so that it is above your character at an angle
-Make sure your are walking/running at the correct speed to be just behind or ahead of the flames
---last of all, taken from a great Douglas Adams' book and as you have mentioned yourself, "Don't Panic!" Unless you are going for the achievement (which you should be doing in the future to prove you can) then you have nearly all the time in the world. Just slowly make your way down and before you start running look at the "safe spots" ahead where you can stop and not get hit by the fire. #

Just so you know my girlfriend who has been in top EU progression guilds during BC and Wrath cannot do this and gets me to run it for her every time. When we did the achievement I ran my guy down and then hers :) She is the same age but cannot play platformers for the life of her :)

Hope that helps and sorry for waffling!
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Gary Argent Dawn · 736 weeks ago

This really hits home for me, I started playing just pre BC because my then 10 year old son wanted me to play along side of him so he'd have some one to do things with....(i am 53 now) he has long since stopped playing an went back to RuneScape as his game of choice where all his pals play. Long story short I avoid most complex raiding because I fail....I dont wanna hold people back or cause a wipe so I avoid it.Now and again I will call my son in the room to do a raid so I can get some cool stuff. He can play anyone of the 8 lvl 80+ guys in any situation that comes up, sometimes it takes a few mins for him to get up to speed, but when he does even with all the changes he is always a top performer...is it age or am I just that lame, I hope its the age thing. I even moved all my toons to a RP server to avoid the ganking which I just dont have the reaction time for either...I still love the game though..
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Frankencarey · 736 weeks ago

It's funny how I just read this today and was at that same area last night for the first time. I had done all the other dungeons on Heroic but DM and pulled it as a random and was telported to that area as the group had already gotten that far. And Yes, I died I think six times before I got through there. Three as kitty form and three as Druid. Took me that long to gestalt the pattern. However, in deference to all the players above, I am 68 years old and have been playing WOW for about two years. My main's current level is 85 with gear score about 358 so this isn't my first rodeo. I think all new enounters can sometimes be difficult and this one was a little strange having never seen it before but age really had nothing to do with it IMO. It was fun and the pug group finished the dungeon and that completed my accomplishment for having completed all the dundgeons on heroic.
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scottadamsrelic · 736 weeks ago

Maybe it's the time you spend with the stuff. When I was 14 and had a brand new Commodore VIC-20 (yes, 3 and a half KILObytes of main memory), I would spend an absurd amount of time trying and researching stuff - programming being the subject. There wasn't really any time constraint. A bit later this would happen with the available games. Just try to finish a Scott Adams text adventure without help, and you know what I'm talking about.

Today, as a fully employed husband and father, I simply have less time. In addition, my drive for knowledge and perfect performance is satisfied in other fields and - of course - success at a video game is something I just won't place as high on my personal priorities list as when I was an adolescent.

So, I guess it has to do with age, but more with the attitude that comes with it.
51 year old female and very quick on the reflexes. I play a resto druid and am used to constant movement during fights. If I find myself in a pile of poop it's only for a fraction of a second, then I'm out of there and still healing.

I am, however, pretty bad at dealing with rogues sapping me in pvp. Is that an age thing, or are rogues just really really mean?
Well i have to say that age isnt an issue ^_^ there is something called tunel vision! Most of wow players suffers of this condition mainly cause most of the time we found ourselfs watching and checking too much the recounts and the whole lot of addons that covers our entire screen
Obviously age is an issue. Let's think scientifically here for a moment (I'm a 57-year-old scientist who's been playing WoW for 4 and a half years).

We have a lot of anecdotes here that don't mean much. Person X has better situational awareness or better keybindings or a better understanding of how to move or use macros or how to dodge the wires I had a hard time with in Deadmines because they grew up playing game Y. Yes, there are many factors other than age that affect gameplay. (Though I'd like to argue later that it's possible that age predisposes us to be better or worse at some of those factors).

But all things being equal, age matters. Reaction times do get slower for each of us - even if some of us at 60 have faster reaction times than others at 20, on average we are slower, and we're all slower than we were in our youth. Even if we don't need twitchy fingers to react in time, if we aren't using our keyboards and mice optimally and haven't practiced the fight or read about it and are not lifelong gamers who are used to certain types of movement - that split second is going to make a difference sometimes. Scientifically, we want to look at one variable at a time, and if all we look at is reaction time as a function of age, normalizing everything else, that has to affect some things. It may not require twitchy fingers to perform most WoW tasks, but on the occasions we are 0.1 second too late rather than 0.5 second too late, well - we'd have been OK 30 years ago. I think it sometimes matters.

But there may be more to it. If we stop being scientific. Just anecdotally myself, I do notice that the people having a harder time with movement fights and with situational awareness tend to be my fellow old folks. First time in heroic BRC with a father and son, it was me and the father being old and slow and first-timers. Others messed up, but it was me being slow on the chain-targeting macro first time and causing a wipe with reaction time. Who's the one person I know who never learned the Heigan dance? A woman in her 60s. Is there anything that challenges me more than having all my healing mana taken away? Yes - getting out of bad stuff in time when I have a hard time visualizing it because my computer is slow or I am weak at moving my camera and at strafing and at mouse-moving. And those wires in heroic Deadmines - I've only been once and that will take practice for me.

Age can be a plus. There are many factors hurting performance that aren't strictly age-related. But age always matters in life. We old folks can do things we aren't expected to, some of those May-December romances may be great, and the internet taught many of us 20 years ago that we could relate to people of all ages to some extent. Maybe much of what slows down my friends who pay WoW and are 50 or 60 is that we never played other similar games, or that we haven't developed particular skills with keyboards and mice. Maybe part of what speeds us old folks up is that we can more often afford, compared to a student or someone in their first job, a computer that will give us high fps at max settings if we want.

But age has matter in more than reaction time. If I had to guess, I would guess that in the same way a teenager picks up a new cell phone or iPad and instantly figures out how everything works, while an old person has to read the manual, perhaps a young person picks up all those keyboard and mouse tricks for movement and camera movement quickly while the old folks either have to study tutorials on situational awareness - and mostly don't - or we wind up plodding along moving with the arrow keys, doing low dps or dying in the fire because we can't strafe, or dying in waves of fire or ice coming from the ceilling because we can't pan our cameras back and forth fast enough - or aren't even trying. I'm guessing a teenager assimilates all the spatial aspects of the typical raid boss faster than a senior. But I'm just guessing
I love this thread, probably because I'm an older. Female, 52 and only a one year veteran of WOW... wait, of ANY video game, I am the player dungeons groups hate to see appear in their party. I agree with Oldguy in almost every point. My better half (56) plays with me, my sisters (57 and 60) also play... all introduced to the game in 2010.... wait.. introduced to ANY video game in 2010. We are not of the video game generation and we don't use ours thumbs to communicate as much as our grown children do. But we LOVE WOW for the same compelling reasons all WOW players love it. We Vent. We Group. We spend time together and occasionally our children will deign to play with us.. patiently, because they love us. We are not fast, we are not good, and we laugh now when we're kicked from dungeons rather than get our feelings hurt. But we try, we're getting better and we're polite. Perhaps we need an "old farts servers". Is our response time less than youngers? I'm certain it is. I would love to see the demographics of WOW subscribers. Though there would need to be some factor for the moms and dads who subscribe in order that their teen-something can play (having no bank acct of his or her own to debit). There's room for all of us to have fun and I wish I'd started playing when my kids were in their teens... Those years would have been more pleasant for all of us and I'd be a lot better by now.
Ok, I'm going to be required to go on Medicare this year. I have been reluctant to raid or do heroics because it just takes me longer to "get it." I know you shouldn't stand in the fire, but I have a need to please and I don't like to disappoint folks that I'm grouped with. I did go on a Sarth raid this weekend and found that I was out dpsed by toons with far lower gear scores. I was spending too much time trying to avoid getting whacked. :(

I love the game, but at my age, my peers would think me totally nuts for playing an MMORPG for hours per day. My wife of 40 years tolerates pretty well, but I mostly play before she gets up. I would like to have a local player that I could sit down with and talk about UI setup and how to best get the highest dps or healing out of my toon.

Thanks for an interesting post.

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